The discovery of the female G-spot caused a sensation at the time, although there is still no confidence that it exists. At the same time, only a few people know about a similar male zone, but every man definitely has one and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and soft fingers. And of course, absolute trust, because not all girls will have access to the most intimate things.
Where is the G spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to search for a mysterious area literally at random, men don't have to guess its location. The "G" point in men, behind which the well-known prostate hides, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch it resembles a tuber the size of a walnut or chestnut, and at the moment of excitement it swells.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (normally there is no hair in this area). For some men, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your spouse or girlfriend to caress the perineal area with her tongue. From the outside, the prostate may feel like an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress the G-spot?
The sensations of prostate stimulation can be very different. Some men experience incredible pleasure (literally to the point of crying), for others it helps them maintain arousal, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it's definitely worth a try so as not to deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or use of force.
A good way to check your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, release can be delayed.
- The impact in the process forces more blood into the penis, making its pulsation more powerful and pleasurable.
- Strong rhythmic pressure mimics the contraction process of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the final phase of the orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G-spot at the moment of reaching maximum erection, as soon as the shaft of the penis swells to its entire length. If the sensations are unpleasant or imperceptible, it is worth waiting a little. If at the moment of full arousal there is still no reaction, perhaps this zone in a particular man is not considered erogenous. In this case, it is best to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis, or explore the area again later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If there is shame or uncertainty in the couple, the first experiment may not be successful. But further research may bring more pleasure if the man can truly free himself. Help in these games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating bullets, a small vibrator), which are presented in a wide variety in adult stores. You can caress the G-spot in at least two ways:
- From inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated with lubricant and then inserted into the anus 5 cm or more, moving in the direction of the pubis. You can find the sensitive "g" spot next to the tubercle on the wall of the rectum. And then you need to massage it carefully, watching the man's reaction.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways: orally or manually. A man will be delighted to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which he can alternate with passionate kisses. When stroking with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help improve gliding and bring more pleasure to your partner. It is necessary to massage the area with the tip of your finger, using circular movements and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will pulse. To increase pleasure, it is necessary to influence it at the same time as contractions. Supporters of Eastern teachings claim that in this way ejaculation can be delayed and sexual intercourse prolonged. In this sense, the male G zone was called the "million dollar spot" and sexologists developed special techniques to postpone ejaculation. These exercises will be helpful for sexual dysfunction.
Is caressing the G-spot beneficial for a man?
In fact, the stimulation of the area can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is done in a medical center and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and shame. Caressing the erogenous G-spot in a romantic environment is a completely different matter: both the environment and the presence of a loved one promote pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and add more intimate nuances to them.
As for health benefits, regularly stroking the prostate will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on the condition that at the moment there are no pathologies on this side and the massage itself is performed gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to influence the prostate area if a man has chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostate hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures in the anus, etc. When in doubt, it is optimal. use light oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual G-spot massage.